Building While Clocked In: How I Learned I Wasn't Falling Behind

Balancing a full-time job, raising kids, supporting family, and building a mission-driven business can feel overwhelming. You might often find yourself asking, “Am I doing enough?”

Many entrepreneurs face this same question, especially when it comes to attending networking events. With most gatherings scheduled during the day, it’s easy to feel like you’re falling behind if you can’t be there.

But let’s set the record straight:

You are not neglecting your business — you are building it in your own unique way.

Focus on Intentional Building

When you step back and look at the big picture, it becomes clear: You probably already have the relationships and connections that many people hope to create by attending events. A 2022 study found that 70% of successful entrepreneurs attribute their growth to strong relationships. So why not give yourself credit for the connections you’ve nurtured in other ways?

Your progress might include:

• Consistency in your message and presence online

• Community support from friends, family, and fellow entrepreneurs

• A focus on helping others succeed, which often leads to reciprocal success

• Active engagement in online communities, where valuable networking happens

• Quiet relationship-building, fostering trust and loyalty over time

• Having advocates who mention you in rooms where you can’t be present

  
  

Recognizing these factors can change your perspective.

There’s No One Path to Success

Some entrepreneurs buzz through mixers and luncheons, drawing energy from every interaction — and that’s fantastic. Others find their rhythm by working during late evenings, lunch breaks, or in between parenting duties. Both paths are valid, and this exploration is about embracing your personal journey.

If you’re juggling work and dreams and questioning if you’re on the right track, remember this:

You are not behind. You’re building differently, often with greater wisdom.

Understanding the Value of Presence

Being present doesn't always mean being physically in a room. Sometimes, it involves nurturing relationships that extend far beyond a single event. For instance, a survey showed that 78% of professionals believe their strongest business connections were formed through ongoing interactions rather than one-off meetings.

Your pace is valid. Your commitment matters. And your current chapter is preparing you for greater success ahead.

Keep pushing forward. You might be achieving more than you realize.

Real-Life Inspiration

Take Carmen Davenport, the founder of Black Dolla Indy & Black Dolla Connect. Carmen illustrates this journey perfectly. She understands the challenges and victories of African American entrepreneurs and small black-owned businesses. Carmen emphasizes that in a world often focused on visibility, it’s crucial to value the depth of your connections.

As you continue on your path, pause and reflect on the relationships you've crafted. You may find that you are much further along than you believed.

Remember:

You are not alone in this journey.

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